Back when I was starting to come out, and more people discovered I was gay, occasionally someone would say to me, “I look at you, and I just keep thinking about you having sex with a guy.” I still get, from some, an incessant amount of “you’re gay” or gay “jokes,” which makes them sound like naive high-school boys from the 1980s. Being gay is not a joke — or a sin.

(SOURCE) https://www.advocate.com/voices/kelly-johnson-loving-sinner-hating-sin